A thing I realized about myself: the amount I want to talk is precisely related to how curious I think the other person is about whatI might have to say.

· Bits and Bobs 9/22/25
  • A thing I realized about myself: the amount I want to talk is precisely related to how curious I think the other person is about whatI might have to say.
    • When the other person is curious to hear what I have to say, talking is one of my favorite things in the world.
    • Someone who has alpha energy (who acts like they outrank me, even if they don't) and who is incurious is my kryptonite.[ae]