Nobody can have full ownership of anything ever.

Everyone has a boss. Even if you don't, the market, the constraints, your investors all might be your 'boss'.

None of us are an island.

The constraints define what we can do... but also give us a structure to operate within.

"I'd be able to do this if freed from constraints" is an impossible bar to clear.

You'll chase it, fruitlessly.

Constraints give us structure to climb on, otherwise it would be a free floating dead space with no way to get leverage and make any movement.