Parents often have a shared context about their kids they rarely say in front of the kid.

· Bits and Bobs 6/22/26
  • Parents often have a shared context about their kids they rarely say in front of the kid.
    • This gets more important as the kids grow to be teenagers.
    • The parents are trying to navigate every interaction with their kids towards goals that are likely never spoken about directly in front of the kids.
      • For example, "Help the kid stay away from bad influences," or "Make sure the kid develops a proactive curiosity."
    • This context is fundamental, deep, and largely invisible.
    • It's all subtext.