The closest thing I know to a magic spell: "Yes, and…"
- The closest thing I know to a magic spell: "Yes, and…"
- It accepts what the collaborator is saying and then redirects it.
- If you didn't accept, then the collaborator would feel stymied or slowed down.
- By affirming, you lift your collaborator up.
- The "and" is extremely important: you chose which parts to build on, applying judgment and steering.