There's a country song: Bless The Broken Road.

All of the previous hardships you've faced put you on the road you're on.

All of the lucky breaks in this specific road can't be separated from the earlier hardships you've experienced.

Would you rather not have had a given hardship if it meant not having this daughter of yours?

The specific things you cherish in your life are inseparable from the hardships on the path you're on.