When you can feel yourself having a personal paradigm shift induced by a specific person catalyst, it's terrifying.

· Bits and Bobs 4/15/24

"Do I trust this person to not be trying to harm me?"

A personal paradigm shift is a very vulnerable time, a chaotic new stage before you recohere.

Like a fiddler crab transitioning to a larger shell as it grows.

Someone could really harm you in that transition stage!