Wisdom is experience + curiosity.

Experience is about the novelty you get hands-on experience with, the variance you can absorb as knowhow.

Curiosity is about your mindset, how open you are to extracting that novelty and noticing it in the first place.

You can control your mindset minute-to-minute better than you can control what experiences you're having.

You can only change what experiences you're having over longer time horizons or stochastically.

If you think something is a chore, it will be a chore.

You will be resentful (not curious) and you will not notice actual novelty in the task.