You can't aggressively give someone a zen riddle to blow their mind.

Something that will blow someone's mind might turn them upside down.

It's a mind-virus. The receiver has to trust that they'll like what the virus will do to them.

If the virus is coming from someone transactional and aggressive, they'll resist it, they won't even let it in.

If the source of the mind-virus is kind and non-transactional (if they trust them), they might let it in.