An authentic action is more meaningful than a performative one.

· Bits and Bobs 6/29/26
  • An authentic action is more meaningful than a performative one.
    • Performative actions are done for the "points."
      • That is, for the social recognition it earns, not for the actual intrinsic value.
    • If an action is always invisible to others, then it will be fully meaningful and authentic.
      • If you can sum up people's individually invisible actions into a public distilled signal, it can be extremely powerful.
      • This is why voting is anonymous!
    • If an action is visible to start, then it may only have been done for the performative reason.
      • You can't cleanly say how powerful the authentic motivation was.
    • When a positive previously-hidden action is later revealed, it earns a ton of trust.
      • "Wow, they did this even though I likely would have never realized they did it! They must really care!"
      • Interestingly, this reveal then earns the actor many more points than if they would have done it visibly from the beginning.
      • This leaves open a kind of cynical move to maximize points with someone: take positive actions that are hidden, but you can reasonably assume will be organically revealed by someone else later.
      • For example, saying nice things about a friend to a mutual friend.
      • This is a kind of "magic trick" for social trust building.

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