One of the reasons I'm OK with disconfirming evidence is I'm eager to please.

2025-09-29 · Bits and Bobs 9/29/25

One of the reasons I'm OK with disconfirming evidence is I'm eager to please.
- That can be good, but it can be bad for setting firm boundaries.
- A firm boundary brooks no disconfirming evidence.
- It is not asking, it is telling.

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