Quoting in full a response from Jake Dahn about last week's riff on tension and abrasion:
- Quoting in full a response from Jake Dahn about last week's riff on tension and abrasion:
- "abrasion becomes tension if the other person isn't ready for it
- nobody wants a scraped knee / ego, so more often than not it ends up being tension anyway
- trust is the antidote"