When you are feeling a feeling, name it so it doesn't control you.

· Bits and Bobs 1/13/25
  • When you are feeling a feeling, name it so it doesn't control you.
    • Point at it, hold it.
    • Acknowledging it allows you to hold it at arm's length and move it to a has-a relation.
      • "I am feeling angry"
    • If you don't, then it is implicitly part of you (is-a) and can have strong implications for how you act that are often not what you want to want.
      • "Jeff is a jerk and I want to sabotage him to get even."
    • Don't ignore emotions. Name them, label them, hold them as an object.