Someone this week told me about the "hot smart person problem."

· Bits and Bobs 9/2/25
  • Someone this week told me about the "hot smart person problem."
    • The hot smart person wants to find smart people to date.
    • But most people want to date them because they're hot, not because they're smart.
    • Hotness is superficial and immediately obvious.
    • Smartness is deep and takes time to detect.